a friend of mine had this written on her facebook wall by her sister-in-law "it is folly to assume my awesome lies dormant." as a photographer i see it all the time. photogs scrambling to submit to endless contests or shell out over and over for workshops, hoping to prove something or find something. . .hoping to hear "you are awesome."
as moms and women, we do the same thing, we are waiting, for this stressful situation to pass, or until this room is put together, then we'll rock it, then we'll be awesome. . .because we'll be there, not here. there we can be awesome, here is just not ready, it's prepping for awesome.
but we've already got it, it's all right here. we don't need 31 days to anything, or that approval from a friend or family member, our awesome is right there, all along.